Frequently asked questions

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Well first thing, well done for wanting to learn more!. Not so long ago I had a 82 year gentlemen come for a session. He said it took him 60 years to pluck up the courage to try a male to male massage! If you are new the best thing is (1) ask me heaps of questions, just text, email or use the chat board at the front of the website the (2) book a session

Mens Peace Massage is for anyone 18+, regardless of your body size, religion, race, orientation or gender. Many coming for a massage are happily married or in a relationship, I don't judge. Some want to tell me they are not gay - traditional massage is focused on empowering you and not your gender orientation. Finally, I work with men, women or any spectrum of orientation as I am deeply passionate about the benefits of massage, in particular traditional forms of massage in our daily life.

Yes for a Marma Massage you are, and it is also best for Lomi Lomi Massage, but if you are shy no worries we can cover you, just ask. With sports sessions, Naked is fine, but equally loose underware is good. 

Generally I your masseur am naked too for Marma Massage - this allows me to use my body, weight and pressure effectively during the massage. I am 163cm and 92Kg, Hawaiian that loves my BBQ so if you are after eye-candy (a) this isn't the focus of my studio (b) the experience is about disappearing into your ihi spirit, and so body size and looks don't matter.

What if I get an Erection during the session? For  both Lomi and Marma we massage and connect a lot to both the Vitapam and Guda areas (Penis and  Anal area) so you may get an erection (or not) - and that is fine. If you ejaculate, no worries - this is a very powerful healing moment in massage

For Marma massage, touching the person giving you a massage can create an amazing sense of connection, and springs from the tradition of Tantra massage where their is a giver and receiver and flow of energy backwards and forwards 

For sports and Lomi I am really focused on empowering you, and the movement of the massage really limits mutual touching.

Every so often I get asked to send a photo of myself, what race, how old, tall, small, blah blah! Both Lomi and Marma have absolutely nothing to do with looks of the Receiver or Giver. One of the Best Massages I ever had was from my 88 year old Yogi - So if this important to you, I recommend you keep seeking as this simply is not my focus . Besides the one photo of me here in the shower, I ain't sending you photos, try grindr or tinder!

Non-Sensual - will not include massage to Penis or butt etc.

Sensual - will include massage to Penis, Butt (around the glutes and outside). great for those new to massage or just wanting their lingam included in a full-body massage

Deeply Sensual - Will include all parts of a sensual massage along with requested Marma points* across your body, such as sacred spot (prostate), and more intimate body touch. It can involve too if you want more Tantra-styled massage for those familiar with this focus

* You will need to be specific about which targeted Marma points you want attention to, and you will need to request these before the massage begins, so don't be shy - see Marma Map here 

Sports Massage is solely focused on recovery, support with injury, pain management and long term rehab - it is NOT a sensual massage, this is because of the specific oil used in Sports massage, that if applied to sensitive areas of your body like your penis or butt will burn!

Lomi Lomi - is sensual, that is it includes massage of your whole body including your penis - it a great introduction to massage, and really relaxing

Marma - is also sensual, but allows you to pick and focus on specific marma points across your body much more than other massages. With specific focus there is more intimate techniques and massage styles used as well. 

I have always placed Health and Safety as a high priority. I follow best practice protocals

• If you are are unwell, delay your booking until better 
• My Studio, equipment etc that is sanitized before each session, including fresh clean towels linen, clothes. Hot Stones, are treated in UV and heated for 20-30 min to above 100c
• During and in between sessions I run a high-efficiency particulate air (HEPA) purifier, that removes air-born bacteria and viruses 
• Face-mask can be provided
• If massage is targeted for Ling, Guda additional protection, including gloves can be used
• I use during each session a Tea-tree infuser that is well researched both to act as both an anti-bacterial and anti-viral agent. 
• Marma Sessions you will be washed as part of the session, however you are expected to wash and be well clean (as am I) for your session

My focus is on traditional forms of massage, using natural oils and ancient techniques - I don't permit clients arriving or using during massage alcohol, drugs or amyl sorry. You will be asked to leave